We in health care are exposed to versions of task saturation, starting in university. Like overwhelmed pilots, we may take our focus off what's important without even realizing it. Because there’s so much to learn, we tend to ignore personal
wellness / work-life balance during our studies. Then training is immediately followed by the rush to establish a career, start a family
etc. By this time, a goal-oriented, workaholic lifestyle is solidly established. Personal wellness and work-life balance
too often languish on the back burner - until we “crash”.
It's wise and healthy to periodically reassess our lives and reset age- & life-stage-appropriate priorities. Everything around us is changing constantly. We need to check in with ourselves from time to time and re-vision where we are, what we're doing, how we're doing it, even why we're doing it. All of these are constantly changing as well. To lead an "undivided life", our outer life needs to be heading in the same direction to which our inner compass is pointing.
Many of us "will never retire. I wouldn't know what to do with myself!" Some retire, then quickly go back to work - or - quickly die. Many others "are busier than ever" after retirement. Let's face it, most of us are like the old donkey that spent it's whole life walking in a circle, pushing a pole to pull water up from a deep well. When it was deemed too old to work and set loose by it's owner, the old donkey walked in a circle till it dropped dead. Donkeys are not alone in suffering from a lethal lack of imagination!
See also: http://mindfulnessforeveryone.blogspot.ca/2013/11/432-i-try-and-i-try-but-i-cant-get-no.html
As stress mounts in our external lives, we respond with a surge of catecholamines that shifts us from full cortical thinking and appreciation to a reactive response generated from the mid brain. As perfectionists, we forget that we are able to share the load and delegate - the closer we come to "task saturation" the more we respond by needing to control and be responsible for everything until, of course, everything falls apart. It is curious that the amygdala is meant to protect us from disaster but in modern times can leave us trapped in a cycle of reaction and lead us away from reflection.
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