Am I Strong or Weak, a Success or a Failure?

     Don't we feel that our family, friends, and society in general expect us to work very hard, be very busy, very successful, wealthy, famous (at the very least locally), and acquire as soon as possible, most but preferably all the signs of success: million+ dollar MacMansion home, prestige cars, designer clothes, prestigious club memberships, private schools for the kids, prestigious summer home, large sail boat, fine wine cellar, regular exotic vacations, etc? The need to be seen as knowledgeable, to be seen as competent are very much part of our personalities - to be seen as successful is almost certainly also part of our makeup.
     And if we never acquire most of the (above) obvious external trappings of wealth, will we be perceived - by others & even ourselves - as weak, lazy and perhaps even a bit dull - a failure? How do we deal with this? Can we allow it?
     Not long ago, showing off one's wealth was considered to be in bad taste, uncouth, crass, "nouveau riche."
     What proportion of health-care professionals can - from practicing good medicine - earn the money required to pay for all that "bling" above? And of the tiny proportion who do, how hard do they have to work to do so? What must they give up in the process?

     If one's top priority is to be seen as "very successful" by material standards, many things can, and do go wrong.
     Constant dissatisfaction with our possessions, is a nightmare created intentionally by big business through advertising. One would hope that health-care professionals are wise enough to realize that "the one who dies with the most toys wins" is a joke, not our true calling.

     See also: http://mindfulnessforeveryone.blogspot.ca/2012/12/250-presents-presence.html
     and: http://mindfulnessforeveryone.blogspot.ca/2012/11/220-hows-work-working-for.html

 

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